Messaging & Social

Private messaging and social media privacy

Regular SMS texts? Yes, multiple parties can read them.

Who can see SMS:

  • Your phone company (stores and can hand over)
  • Hackers (known security flaws in phone networks)
  • Anyone with phone access

SMS was created in the 1980s. It’s like sending a postcard.

iMessage catch:

Blue bubbles are encrypted. But one Android user in the chat = falls back to insecure SMS.

WhatsApp:

Encrypts messages but collects metadata (who, when, how often) and shares with Facebook.

Solution: Use a messenger built for privacy.

See: Secure messengers

Like passing notes in class — but in secret code only you and your friend know.

How it works:

  1. Your phone scrambles the message before sending
  2. It travels as gibberish
  3. Only the recipient’s device can unscramble it

The key part:

Even the company running the service can’t read your messages. Not employees, not hackers, not governments with court orders.

Why it matters:

Without it, your messages sit readable on company servers — a target for hackers and temptation for companies to scan.

See: Secure messengers (all use E2E encryption)

Kind of. It’s complicated.

Good: Messages are end-to-end encrypted. WhatsApp can’t read them.

Bad: They collect everything else:

  • Who you talk to and when
  • Your contacts
  • Device info, IP address
  • How you use the app

This metadata goes to Meta (Facebook). They use it for ad profiles.

Backup problem:

Cloud backups may not be encrypted. Google/Apple could access them.

Bottom line:

Better than SMS, but if you want privacy without feeding data to Facebook, there are better options.

See: Private messengers

Step 1: Pick a private messenger with:

  • End-to-end encryption
  • Minimal data collection
  • Open source code

Step 2: Get friends to switch

Instead of lecturing, just say “Hey, trying this app, chat there?” Most will download if asked nicely.

Step 3: Enable extra features

  • Disappearing messages
  • Screenshot notifications

The hard part:

Privacy tools only work if both sides use them. But private messengers work just like WhatsApp — same experience, more private.

See: Messenger recommendations

“If you’re not paying, you are the product.”

The real cost:

  • Your data — everything you post and interact with
  • Your attention — algorithms maximize scrolling time
  • Your mental health — content optimized for engagement
  • Your worldview — filter bubbles reinforce beliefs

The numbers:

Average user generates hundreds of dollars in ad revenue yearly. That’s the value of your data.

You can’t opt out and stay on:

There’s no private mode for Facebook or TikTok. Tracking IS the service.

What to do:

  • Use less
  • Don’t use real info
  • Consider decentralized alternatives
  • Accept the trade-off if you stay

Go in with eyes open about what “free” really costs.

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